happiness

I'm bored trying to think of a topic to entertain your minds and all I can think of is making a list of something. hobbies, favorite foods, reasons why I hate making a list. I don't know. Just something, so I just came up wit the idea of happiness, like literally just thought of it!

Its kind of a hard question. What makes you happy? There are so many directions it could go. I'm just going to go however my mind takes me...this should be interesting.

• Food...duh
• Nice patios 
• Sunshine
• My dog
• Nice people
• Making people pretty
• Football
• Shopping
• Family 
• Good times
• Fuzzy blankets 
• Blogging
• Holding hands 
• Watching movies 
• Spa time 
• Good friends

It doesn't take much to keep me happy. Lets be real, foods the only thing on that list that really matters haha 

totally kidding 

bye y'all

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Moving Day

Moving is the most enjoyable time you will ever have in your life, everybody will do it once in their life. I mean finding things you forgot you had, the kind of things that just bring back memories. Bullshit. Excuse me for my language, but whoever thinks that load of crap clearly needs to be checked into the nearest loony bin!

I recently moved. and it was hell, it still is but as its all coming together and my mind is coming to ease. I'm still in the same city just 15 min away from my old place, when you're moving  that 15 min away seems more like 2 hours away and especially when its a one women show, yes I did have help and I'm more then grateful, but there were plenty times I loaded up my car and took box after box up a flight of stairs and regret it after. I don't know if its how incredibly out of shape I am or the 1000 degree weather we just had to have on that one day

Some tips I  have for people who will be moving..  

*Throw shit away....I have 2 large trash bags of stuff for goodwill...a hoarder i am not!
* Stay away from the grocery....which wasn't a problem for us, we barley went anyways
* Organize your stuff in boxes...throwing stuff in the trunk. FAIL
* Take your clothes off the hangers or you will have clothes all in the parking lot attempting to keep them on
* Don't take your frustration out on the utilities people.. even though the water lady was unnecessarily rude, I mean how am I supposed to know where and what a water valve is.
*Get a place on the 1st floor!! Your body will appreciate you!

Now that I'm getting settled in and finding space for everything I realize its all worth it. we have a nice apartment, and hopefully will be here for a while!!

Shut Your Feelings Down!

So I have some expressing to do, I mean I'm not a "let your feelings out" type of person. Honestly, I let them all build up and come at people like a raging fire, but hey, I can admit that. 

So does that mean I have to fix it? 

I'm normally super laid back and go with the flow, basically a "bro" to all of my guy friends, and I'm absolutely ok with that, and I'm great at giving others advice about their relationship problems, but can't seem to handle my own. Hmmm interesting. 

Why is that? 

I think as humans we deal with problems better if they are someone else's.

 My friends occasionally get the "Shut your feelings down" when they come to me with their problems, but 90% of the time we're intoxicated when that is said. Don't judge. 

Seriously  though, I've been told I think like a dude sometimes, all the time no i''m not offended because i'm aware, the question is why do I think this way. 

 Its example time:

 I say hey! I'm at (insert place here) you should come....if you want.

 OK

 lets take a minute and pull apart that sentence. "IF YOU WANT" here I am giving you options and since I did say that, the guy can choose to accept or decline the invite... basically the ball is in your court. 

The guy comes back with " if you want me there I'll come" umm ok that's not a yes or no answer. At this point I say " well of course I want you here, but its up to you"

 I REFUSE to beg people. 

9 times out of 10 the conversation keeps going back and forth leaving me irritated. I don't get it

 So talking to some of my girlfriends, many of them have said "you think like a dude" 

I mean is that even attractive? 

 or 

is it the guys I talk to have girl like tendencies?

 meh.

 I admit there are things I need to work on with my emotions and feelings and letting people know but the real truth is I just don't get you silly boys.

 bye ya'll
ash.