Shut Your Feelings Down!

So I have some expressing to do, I mean I'm not a "let your feelings out" type of person. Honestly, I let them all build up and come at people like a raging fire, but hey, I can admit that. 

So does that mean I have to fix it? 

I'm normally super laid back and go with the flow, basically a "bro" to all of my guy friends, and I'm absolutely ok with that, and I'm great at giving others advice about their relationship problems, but can't seem to handle my own. Hmmm interesting. 

Why is that? 

I think as humans we deal with problems better if they are someone else's.

 My friends occasionally get the "Shut your feelings down" when they come to me with their problems, but 90% of the time we're intoxicated when that is said. Don't judge. 

Seriously  though, I've been told I think like a dude sometimes, all the time no i''m not offended because i'm aware, the question is why do I think this way. 

 Its example time:

 I say hey! I'm at (insert place here) you should come....if you want.

 OK

 lets take a minute and pull apart that sentence. "IF YOU WANT" here I am giving you options and since I did say that, the guy can choose to accept or decline the invite... basically the ball is in your court. 

The guy comes back with " if you want me there I'll come" umm ok that's not a yes or no answer. At this point I say " well of course I want you here, but its up to you"

 I REFUSE to beg people. 

9 times out of 10 the conversation keeps going back and forth leaving me irritated. I don't get it

 So talking to some of my girlfriends, many of them have said "you think like a dude" 

I mean is that even attractive? 

 or 

is it the guys I talk to have girl like tendencies?

 meh.

 I admit there are things I need to work on with my emotions and feelings and letting people know but the real truth is I just don't get you silly boys.

 bye ya'll
ash.